Don't coddle me.
Don't tell me im amazing when im subpar.
Don't praise me for being the least shitty and for fucks sake DO NOT BLOW SMOKE UP MY ASS!
I'm an adult. I take criticism well because I understand that it's not personal. In the rare instance it is personal I give no fucks because I dictate how I feel, not you. Im too self aware for that bullshit and grew out of "needing approval" years ago. Does it help? Sure it feels good but I can function without it because I believe in myself without your help.
I cannot and will not get better if you celebrate my short comings. I will only continue to come up short.
I cannot and will not grow if you ignore areas that i can improve on because you're worried about my ego. Its MY ego, let ME deal with it!
If you see me doing something wrong repeatedly its because I likely don't know that I'm doing it wrong and that's not ok! I can't get better without your help in that respect.I need you to point out what i suck at because if you don't, you're holding me back.
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